{"id":3668,"date":"2013-07-24T01:40:29","date_gmt":"2013-07-24T08:40:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/?p=3668"},"modified":"2019-10-21T18:17:48","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T01:17:48","slug":"lessons-learned-this-side-of-the-sod-9-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/?p=3668","title":{"rendered":"Lessons Learned this Side of the Sod #9: Change"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"skeleton<\/a>\u00a0\u201cThe function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays.\u201d\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0I won\u2019t pretend to have read even a tenth of what Kierkegaard wrote let alone understand the difference between theistic and atheistic existentialism.\u00a0 To borrow from Stephen Leacock, I\u2019ll assume one uses alternating current and the other requires a travel adapter like you use to charge the camera battery.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

This one simple sentence took me a very long time to understand. It started to make sense when I heard it put together with a Bible story many folk like to joke about.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The story of Abraham and Isaac has become such an easy a target for comics it is almost a \u2018take my wife please\u2019 fall back when they start to lose the crowd. Dad makes the kid schlep a load of wood up the mountain. God tells Dad to tie the boy up and<\/span> toss him on the wood but just before that final cut, an angel appears with the old testament equivalent of \u2019April Fool!\u2026I was just kidding.\u2019\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“And we laughed\u2026.”<\/span><\/p>\n

The zen light bulb moment is that God’s trust in Abraham didn’t change but Abraham’s sure did.\u00a0\"Carravagio<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0I\u2019ve watched my girls walk face first into walls I warned them about because I still have the dents on my nose from those same bricks. I\u2019ve asked them to do and not do things I knew would make life easier for them because, in hindsight, I saw where I could have saved myself so many steps back, around and over to get to where I started.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0And I recall a faint echo of my own mom saying much the same to me as I steamed full speed for the rocks.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0The bottom line is that, in order to change, be it for the better, the worse or just to understand why it is what it is, \u00a0you have to go through the moment yourself.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I may not be the person my parents expected me to be and I most certainly am not the person I expected to be but I am different from the person I was.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0And the prayer that can never be answered, the prayer that has changed me the most is the one that starts, \u201cDear God, I wish they were here to hear me say \u2026.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0\u201cThe function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays.\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0I won\u2019t pretend to have read even a tenth of what Kierkegaard wrote let alone understand the difference between theistic … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[70,1,444],"tags":[750,749,50,589,529],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3668"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4192,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668\/revisions\/4192"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/suddenalarm.blaseckie.ca\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}